I’ve heard one of the greatest problems facing individuals born after 1981 is being indecisive, and thus lacking the ability to commit.
Through the ages it has become increasingly easier to be indesicive. We are less likely to have huge stakes on every decision we make, lessinging the pressure considerably. A lot of decisions are made for us, by society, our parents, and even peers.
To combat this cycle one must really consider their own desires for the future, short term or long term. In the end your happiness relies on you and the descions you make and don’t make to try and get there.